Mending a Broken Heart

Loves me, Loves me not

I Want you to Take Over & Take oVer Control

Now, I'm not claiming to be an expert in any love affairs of the heart , but what I do really know is that going to a new place

for the very first time, is definitely headed for a great start to mending that Broken Lonely Heart of yours.

There are so many places in this huge beautiful world of ours and so many great and awesome things to do that can truly help you get some perspective and get you smiling and laughing again. Plan on going some place new for the very first time can be exciting, exhilarating, rewarding and I can’t think of anything better for a fresh start after a break up. These are a few things that I have found to be soothing in the beginning stages of mending that beautiful lovely heart of ours that was once lost and played with which has left us feeling bluer than blue: Get dressed up in your fancy attire, go all out and Honey, I"m meaning "bring it!' cause you sure are worth it - go see a silly - hysterical play/ theater, ballet, comedy, high class club or event. It doesn’t have to be one of these places or a trip round the world, it could just be for a day, or less. What I do know is that the world’s a very BIG place, so don’t waste any time and get exploring.

Go all out, play that sexy, classy, confident, intelligent, sophisticated role " as if you're secretly saying 'Here I am, looky looky looky and you can't have have cause Baby, I was born this way and I'm proud to turn the other cheek and be happy. This is your evening, your trip, your new beginning to a happier healthier new you... Now don't be snooty or to arrogant or act better, just do you with a whole lot of confidence and respect and must have knowledge of the type of Life path that you are searching for even in the Lady/Man area.. Always do you, but improve the new you for some body that does deserve a great loving, intelligent, funny, thoughtful, loyal and honest person. You only live once/ the skies the limits and if that break-up was not meant to be.You've got to move on and prove to your self that you are a better person that can do more than just sit and dwell over somebody that just hurt you.....You Can DO IT.. You know why you can? Cause You Love yourself and you Can Cause you CAN..

Make a change and stand up, be strong, put that smile back on that face,"as my momma would tell me ' baby, you've got to turn that frown up side down and get those feet a moving. Cause sitting still isn't going to pay nor do anything good for you besides crying over some rotten milk that God finally got out of your life for you to only do better.

Must have an I CAN attitude.

Go out side your comfort zone with people. Maybe the person you'd fall in love with is somebody you least think you'd end up with, and BOOOM, next thing you know-you are in love for all the right reasons.

Don't have so many limits to as what you do and don't like or want in life's adventures.